Today is Memorial Day and days like this always come with mixed feelings for me, as well as for many others. We are grateful for the service and sacrifice of our veterans, yet we do not want to celebrate the spirit of nationalism and violence. I am aware of the theological complexity that comes with remembering our country’s wars and warriors. I am also aware of the pastoral complexity. My focus has moved from moral statements about war and peace to queries like “how do we create space for…