Primitive Christianity Revived, Again
I recently heard Micah Bales (Ohio Yearly Meeting) speak of this in a talk posted on YouTube. He says: “We hear Christians today talking a lot about “believing the Bible,” and being ‘Bible believing Christians.’ That’s kind of a phrase, “Bible believing Christians.” I trust the Scriptures. I believe the Scriptures have great authority. They are extremely important in my walk with the Lord. But ultimately, I believe in Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. He is sovereign over all things, over heaven and earth, over that which is under the earth, and over the Bible. Jesus Christ is Lord and sovereign over the Scriptures themselves. He is the One who we must go to to be able to understand the Scriptures. So I don’t think the Scriptures of themselves, without the Spirit, without Jesus Christ, have any power. I believe it is only as we listen to Jesus Christ as He is present with us today through the power of His Holy Spirit that we can understand the Scriptures and truly follow Him.” (The transcription is mine. The clip is at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ULWQ8-p6EjY&feature=player_detai....)
I don't know that "encouraging" children "to let out all that is in them and not oppress it" is at all a good idea.
What Mate says (and it makes sense to me) is that it's a good idea to wait until you've restored your own calm, let the kid know that 1) you care for him/her and 2) you don't hold him responsible for your emotional control or lack thereof and 3) once you've established the other two things-- then you've got some hope of communicating that there are better ways of dealing with conditions you don't like....
It seems to me that this is largely what God has been attempting to tell us through Jesus: 1) That He cares about us, isn't just setting us up for abandonment. 2) That He is not angry because of our errors and misdeeds, and 3) Said errors and misdeeds really don't work very well for us.
Listen with love, yes! Mate recommends "compassionate curiosity" rather than waxing judgmental. For dealing with oneself, as well!
There is a fundamental difference in theologies.... those who believe we are guilty (original sin, low self-esteem, etc.) and those who believe we are innocent -- or that innocence can be regained. The idealism of Quakers is along the lines of the 2nd. God -- even God! -- will speak to YOU and will be more trustworthy a guide than an external source. Who dares to be so idealistic as this? Not many in our culture.
To put my comment in context I had said:
It's important to listen to them (little children) with love and encourage them to let out all that is within them and not oppress it... While simultaneously helping them to heal their anger and willfulness, finding ways to release it.
I think the context matters, so I wanted to restore it.... but also this fact I mention above matters. We have been taught to not trust our emotions and our own spirit, not to trust our reactions to situations. Frequently that turns into suppressing our responses instead of understanding them. From an energy-medicine perspective, I would say that all these primal emotional and reactions are innocent. They are sometimes heavily burdened and kinked up with a pile of other things that "happened long ago" or whatever, so we may be reactionary and hurtful to others. But while this is true, it's very important to know that the self and the emotional responses from it are, underneath it all, deeply valid. It can be good to look for why the reaction is so kinked up and the person not at peace and at ease within themselves (such as in the case of hateful responses). But your emotions are all valid. Maybe they just aren't always about what you think! Being a detective can be good, or having the help of others to do this because it sometimes leads toward resolving health problems, making lifestyle changes, or just changes in one's world view. We find out that there's more reason for everything we feel than we would have dared believe...and that it's all worthy of our compassion and attention.
But yeah, for me all the grace has been on the others side of "letting out all that is inside and not oppressing it."
There's a somewhat well-known passage that speaks to this from the gnostic gospel of Thomas. I love it:
"If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you."
Sticking (very loosely at this point) with the theme of our post... I would speculate that this is the reach of divinity in a nutshell.
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